Story of My Life, part 6

by | Jan 15, 2024 | Musings | 103 comments

I have a particularly vivid memory of being annoyed during the lesson on counseling, which is the process sergeants are supposed to use to coach or reprimand subordinates. We were in small groups and each group had written more or less the same words on our whiteboards. The first two groups said basically the same thing, and so when my group’s turn came, the rest of my group immediately ran away. I suppose they expected me to have some choice words to say and they were right.

I said: so they wrote these words on the board. Does anyone not know what they mean? The instructor demanded that I explain them as the other groups did and I said I’m not explaining elementary school vocabulary to a room full of people who all have at least a high school diploma. Well, the instructor was not pleased and ended up giving me a negative counseling. In a work of fiction, this would be foreshadowing. Like many of the other people who have demeaned me over the years, he too was much taller than me.

Another sergeant there flicked me in the ear for no apparent reason. He too was a big, tall guy. So much for being an expert and a professional. One of my favorite sayings is everything weak feels itself attacked if touched. I try to shrug off such things.

Nonetheless, I passed the course, if something so pointless even deserves that name and returned to Fort Gordon where I got promoted two months later. As is customary, I gave a little speech, which went:

***
I have three things to say. First, Harry Truman cheated on the eye exam to get into the Army. Second, my favorite quote is from an ancient Greek historian named Thucydides, who said that the key to happiness is freedom and the key to freedom is courage. And third, Sergeant Harty has a nice ring to it.
***

Several people later told me it was the best promotion speech they ever heard. While I mission, I would post jokes and fun facts in the group chat. I figure it was a way to boost morale and practice comedy. My favorite quip I posted was:

***
The Army has its ups and downs, but I’ll say this much: I never saw a kid playing with a bunch of little plastic hippies.
***

My other favorite quip was to say that NSA is the only part of the government that actually listens.

In August of 2019, I went on a monthlong road trip. The turn-around point was in Oregon. I got to go on many road trips in the Army while on leave and driving between assignments. The military park pass is a wonderful fringe benefit that allows active-duty military to get into all national parks for free, and I made great use of it. I fell in love with Wyoming during my trip through it that August. I’ve been to 49 states, and I don’t need to see Hawaii to pick a favorite. America the Beautiful is not just a song.

Unfortunately, I gained about 24 pounds during that road trip, and to make things worse, I was informed upon my return that I would have a weigh-in and a fitness test in a month. I was unhappy, because I had done both those things before my trip in anticipation of my weight gain. Nonetheless, over the next month, I walked about 200 miles while eating very carefully and was able to pass both tests. Speaking of tests, I took 18 Arabic tests over 3 years and passed 16 of them. My best performance was in the spring of 2018 when I passed the tests for standard, Iraqi, Levantine, Saudi, Sudanese, and Yemeni Arabic.

I struggled with weight the whole time I was in the Army. At DLI, I was in danger of being kicked out for failing a body fat measurement test. So that led to a period of frenzied exercise while at the same time trying to keep up with my Arabic studies. A similar cycle happened a few times at Fort Gordon, but somehow, I was always able to lose enough weight in time. The Army spends an unreasonable amount of time measuring weight, body fat, and fitness of its soldiers. I recall seeing a table which stated that about 90% of the jobs in the Army require only moderate levels of fitness. Some soldiers do dangerous and unhealthy things to keep their weight down while others injure themselves as they strive to score higher on fitness tests. Still others suffer career-ending injuries while training for skills that have little benefit in the wars that are likely to come.

A soldier I met at DLI suffered a career-ending injury during a jump at airborne school. His line didn’t release so he banged into the airplane a few times and was knocked out. Fortunately, his chute opened, and he regained consciousness before he hit the ground. The worst part is that he made it all the way through the Arabic course and never worked a day on mission. There but for the grace of God go I. The Army has lost more soldiers to suicide and accidents than combat every year since 2006. The best solution in my opinion is to promote people based on ASVAB scores rather than the peculiar cocktail of fitness, marksmanship, and online courses the Army prefers. There’s a reason why military officers are required to have college degrees, which is that college graduates are generally smarter and less likely to make decisions that get people killed for no good reason.

I lived in barracks the whole time I was in the Army and spent the last 2 years in the same room at Fort Gordon. Sergeants who live in the barracks get the room to themselves, which is nice perk. I had a bed, fridge, dressers, closet, desk, bathroom, and microwave. A similar room would cost about $1,000 per month in most places. Not having to pay rent is nice way to save $12,0000 per year easily. I drove the same car I bought for $3,000 in 2014 the whole time I was in the Army and between some inheritance and frugal habits, saved up about 5 years of living expenses. That would come in very handy later.

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103 Comments

  1. Don escaped Texas

    Fort Gordon

    During the Confederate invasion of Pennsylvania, Gordon’s brigade occupied Wrightsville on the Susquehanna River, the farthest east in Pennsylvania that any organized Confederate troops would reach. Union militia under Col. Jacob G. Frick burned a mile-and-a-quarter-long covered wooden bridge to prevent Gordon from crossing the river, and the fire soon spread to parts of Wrightsville. Gordon’s troops formed a bucket brigade and managed to prevent further destruction to the town.

    At the Battle of Gettysburg on July 1, Gordon’s brigade and other units drove the Union XI Corps from Barlow’s Knoll. There, he aided the opposing division commander, Francis Barlow, who was wounded. This incident led to a story about the two officers meeting later in Washington, D.C., Gordon unaware that Barlow had survived the battle. The story was told by Barlow and Gordon and published in newspapers and in Gordon’s postwar memoir. Seated at Clarkson Potter’s table, I asked Barlow: “General, are you related to the Barlow who was killed at Gettysburg?” He replied: “Why, I am the man, sir. Are you related to the Gordon who killed me?” “I am the man, sir,” I responded. No words of mine can convey any conception of the emotions awakened by those startling announcements. Nothing short of an actual resurrection from the dead could have amazed either of us more. Thenceforward, until his untimely death in 1896, the friendship between us which was born amidst the thunders of Gettysburg was greatly cherished by both.
    β€”β€ŠJohn B. Gordon, Reminiscences of the Civil War

    • creech

      Most historians believe this nice little story told by Gordon never happened.

      • Derpetologist

        The story of him ordering his men to return the salute from Chamberlain’s is also a polite fiction, so I read.

        β€œHistory is the version of past events that people have decided to agree upon.”

        -Napoleon

    • Derpetologist

      The guy who gave me the negative counseling looked like High Tower from Police Academy, was in fact a cop, and some of the other students were shocked that he didn’t just beat me like a Hong Kong gong. One said something like “Jesus, do you carry your balls in a wheelbarrow? That guy’s hands are as big as the end of shovel!”

      Of course, it’s not really a good look for a cop and middle-aged staff sergeant in the National Guard to pummel a guy a foot shorter than him. So instead, he wrote a long-winded nastygram which he insisted on reading to me word-for-word like I’m illiterate. God, there are way too many overgrown, juvenile delinquents in the Army in positions of authority. By all means dingus, tell me the life lessons you’ve learned from barbed wire tattoo you go after you went back to your fourth wife for the third time to give her a second chance to make a first class fool out of you.

      Well, joke’s on him. Another instructor stole counseling an hour later and ripped it up. Welcome to the Corps of Non-commissioned Officers, where there are no rules and the (promotion/IQ) points don’t matter.

      Oh well. I made it through the Army’s Direct IQ Reduction Program (DIRP).

      I’m also pleased to say the worst fight I got into in the Army resulted mere bruises to the backs of my arms. I’ve gotten worse from falling on my own fat ass.

  2. Gustave Lytton

    There’s a reason why military officers are required to have college degrees, which is that college graduates are generally smarter and less likely to make decisions that get people killed for no good reason.

    πŸ˜‚

    • DrOtto

      Glad I refreshed before replying.

    • creech

      Grant and Lee were graduates of the top college of the day. History shows both got people killed for no good reason.

      • Derpetologist

        Hence my qualifying adverbs.

        As long as we’re cherry-picking, I present the following to bolster my assertion:

        ***
        William Calley was the Army officer responsible for the My Lai massacre. On his wiki page:

        “Calley graduated from Miami Edison High School in Miami and then attended Palm Beach Junior College in 1963. He dropped out in 1964 after receiving unsatisfactory grades, consisting of one C, two Ds, and four Fs.”

        Not everyone who does badly in school is an idiot, but most idiots do badly in school. Yet somehow, he scored high enough on the entrance exam for Officer Candidate School. Maybe he got his act together. It could also be that the exam was a joke.

        I don’t know what it took to get into OCS in the mid 60s, but I have seen the current OCS application. It has sections on physical & mental health, education (4-year degree is required), criminal background, political/patriotism questions, and requests for multiple references. I think you needed a letter from a Congresscitter too. For some reason, you also have to submit a picture of yourself wearing a business suit- I guess the Army prefers photogenic officers.
        ***

      • Fourscore

        In the mid 60s, VN era, I went to Infantry OCS at Benning, we were about 40% college grads, 60 % prior service. Th college grads had a much better graduation rate than the retreads. One reason was they were fresh from basic and AIT and in good physical shape. Over all we had about a 40% attrition rate. I got a branch transfer to Signal Corps, the only one in my class. For the most part the college guys were not career minded, had a two year obligation after commissioning. Probably 90 % or more went to VN.

        By ’72 there was an overage of younger officers, a reduction in force (RIF) eliminated many, many I thought were quality people. That went on a couple more times and by about ’75 everything was back in balance. I retired in ’76, has 2 years of college by that time.

    • Gustave Lytton

      My personal opinion is that
      1) the credentialism that infects the civilian world, also makes it there

      2) it’s not British Army level, but there’s a snobbery and desire by the gentlemen by act of Congress to keep the riff riff out.

      3) ex post facto justification for spending 4 years in ROTC instead of cleaning shitters and policing rocks.

      • Derpetologist

        Some jarhead was making chin music about how mustangs (guys who go from enlisted to officer) are like “merchants marrying into the aristocracy” and are eroding the oh-so precious culture of commissioned officers.

        Jesus, I’d call that guy a cunt, but he lacks both the depth and the warmth.

        Yo Niedermeyer – go win a war, you pompous shithead

        Oh bonus, the guy’s name is Ivan Snook. That’s practically a Car Talk joke about their Russian cat burglar.

  3. Fourscore

    I was at Gordon a couple times, my son was born in the military hospital, the old wooden WW2 style buildings. I got promoted to SFC E-7 there, with less than 6 years in the Army. A post wide promotion board.

    Four years later went through Officer’s Basic there.

    • Derpetologist

      I really hope to go the distance, but as it became increasingly obvious that the Army would not work out for me in the long run, I started looking for an expedited exit. All in all, I’m glad I did it, I’m glad it’s over, and that I left with all the body parts I came in with and most of my sanity. Some guys join the Army and get an early grave.

      Sic transit gloria mundi.

      The soundtrack for this series would include the Monty Python Theme Song, Spanish Flea, and Entry of the Gladiators. Maybe also Dare to be Stupid and They’re Coming to Take Me Away.

  4. Derpetologist

    Breaking News

    ***
    A US-owned vessel has been hit by a missile off Yemen’s coast amid air strikes against Houthis.

    According to the UK Maritime Trade Operations, an “incident” happened 95 nautical miles southeast of Yemen’s port city of Aden after “master reports port side of vessel hit from above by a missile.”
    ***

    As a guy who spent many hours studying Yemeni Arabic, I feel compelled to note that Houthi is the name of the tribe, and the actual militant group it gets conflated with is Ansarallah (God’s Helpers). As usual, the US media gets is wrong. But by all means, let’s stick our collective dicks in that hornet’s nest.

    • Fourscore

      “A US-owned vessel has been hit by a missile”

      LBJ’s Gulf of Tonkin revisited. Maybe Biden thinks he will get re-elected if he can start a war over a fictional event.

    • Brochettaward

      I love the passive voice glossing over the fact that the American “owned” vessel was conducting air attacks in Yemen when it was hit back.

      • Derpetologist

        Eh, same article says it was a cargo ship:

        ***
        The intelligence firm Ambrey confirmed the vessel struck by a missile near Yemen is a US-owned, Marshall Islands-flagged bulk carrier. The ship is owned by Eagle Bulk, a Stamford, Connecticut-based firm traded on the New York Stock Exchange.
        ***

      • dbleagle

        Legally that is not an American ship. Owned by a US entity, but the fact it is registered in, and flies the flag of, the Marshall Islands means it is their ship. Let them send their navy to protect it.

        To your point on officers having college degrees means they are “smart”, I disagree. It means they displayed the discipline to punch the tickets to get a degree so hopefully they have some internal discipline as an officer. For the Army a degree is a degree and it most times doesn’t matter what it is in. I think a better judge is to see who competes in the Special Operation Forces Assessment Courses. As long as they complete it, even if they are not selected, it shows a commitment to trying to attain above the average.

      • dbleagle

        Spoken as a former ROTC instructor and graduate of all three SOF branch qualifying courses. My view might be skewed by that.

      • Gustave Lytton

        They kind of did. Their navy is the US Navy.

        The United States has full authority and responsibility for security and defense of the Marshall Islands, and the Government of the Marshall Islands is obligated to refrain from taking actions that would be incompatible with these security and defense responsibilities.

        https://mh.usembassy.gov/our-relationship/policy-history/

      • Derpetologist

        More cherry-picking from me. Wiki says on Stormin’ Norman that:

        ***
        Schwarzkopf graduated valedictorian out of his class of 150, and his IQ was tested at 168.
        ***

        That is certainly above average. He began his career as an infantry officer and did well in combat. No snake-eating for him. I think West Point is overrated, but I do have some respect for those who jump out of perfectly good airplanes. I had fun when I did that. Once was enough for me.

        I did stand-up comedy later that evening while wearing that same shirt. Good times.

      • Tres Cool

        Once was enough? I had to do it 5 times, twice in dark.

        +5 jump chump

    • rhywun

      Hit by whose missile?

      It’s a shame that such a critical transport route is surrounded by… unpleasant populations.

    • Aloysious

      I smell ‘escalation’ in the air.

  5. Derpetologist

    So, near as I can tell, Biden ordered a massive cyberattack on Iran in late 2021 before essentially handing them billions of dollars two years later. After that, Iran egged its proxy Hamas into launching the deadliest attack on Israel ever.

    How stupid do our leaders have to be to fail at predicting that? Is fomenting chaos the goal?

    Fuck me running, the Joint Chiefs of Staff should all take turns slapping each other until their arms are tired.

    And now we have a nice war brewing with Yemen while we are already mired in two other proxy wars with no end in sight.

    I never want to hear another word about how Democrats are anti-war.

    • Gustave Lytton

      The JCS is beyond help. McMasters wrote the book and proceeded to use it as a how to manual.

    • Aloysious

      Sadly, being anti-war probably wouldn’t win the upcoming election. For Biden, I mean.

  6. Chafed

    Why is tonight’s game in Tampa Bay when the Eagles have a better record?

    • Grumbletarian

      Tampa won their division. The Cowboys won the NFC East.

      • Chafed

        Thanks. I expected the Eagles to dominate tonight. Boy was I wrong.

      • slumbrew

        The Iggles lost five of their last six heading into the postseason. They’re lucky to even be here.

      • rhywun

        They are… not good. WTF.

        Safety – LOL

      • creech

        You haven’t been paying attention to them for the last ficking six weeks.

      • Chafed

        This is true. I hardly watched any football this season.

    • Chafed

      I know what you’re getting Yusef for Christmas.

  7. Gustave Lytton

    Day 3 of cabin fever. Car is encased in ice and road is much the same. Wish my truck was here, but perhaps better it isn’t. No way am I driving the missus’ VW until it unfreezes. Maybe tomorrow but could be Wed/Thu. At least the internet is back now so can work from home and see y’all reprobates.

  8. kinnath

    Trump is on his way to a record-setting margin of victory in the caucuses. I assume new indictments will be announced tomorrow in various blue cities across the land.

      • Chafed

        I think they have already served their purpose.

    • rhywun

      I saw that Nikki was trailing Ron, which pleased me.

      • Gustave Lytton

        My wife is half joking about waking up tomorrow morning and finding Nikki actually won the Iowa caucuses.

  9. rhywun

    This game is a crime scene.

    /considers flipping back to The Office marathon… and I don’t like The Office

    • Chafed

      How’s Babylon 5 going?

      • rhywun

        Nowhere since the last time you asked.

      • Chafed

        If I remember correctly you are somewhere in season 3.

      • rhywun

        *I* don’t remember correctly.

        I’m just not in a “place” to take it up again right now.

      • Chafed

        I’ll leave it alone… for now. 😁

    • Chafed

      Well done Derpe.

  10. Derpetologist

    Scene from Afghanistan sometime before everything went pear-shaped:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tLhvwpiH0sQ

    I would *very* much like to know why this elite, tier-1, delta force power ranger is unable to give basic commands in the language of the military he is supposed to be helping.

    Oh well. I’m sure his body fat percentage is just *fabulous*. Pay no attention to the fact that Teddy Roosevelt was 40, fat, and had asthma when he fought famously.

    I try not to be overly critical, negative, and cynical, particularly about things I have not experienced directly. Sometimes, the stupidity is so egregious that I can’t help myself.

  11. Mojeaux

    My child is on the road at 10p, in –4F (heat index –16F) cold, with it having snowed all day, nothing plowed at all. I was out in this earlier at 3p and it was nasty then.

    I am a nervous fucking wreck right now.

    • rhywun

      nothing plowed at all

      Gah?

      Why not?

      • Mojeaux

        It was snowing all day and the plows are backed up and the chemicals don’t work at this temp.

      • rhywun

        Dayum. I’m only just getting used to this sub-zero shit again after some decades.

        Our big snow last week came at around 32 degrees and then it all melted away the next day.
        Now we’re dipping into the teens and single digits but no snow or ice. Yet.

      • Tres Cool

        Also known as “January”, Laura Ingalls.

    • Mojeaux

      Okay, she’s home. The roads outside of my little municipality are decent. Imagine that. πŸ™„

      • slumbrew

        Molto bene.

      • Chafed

        Glad she made it home safely.

      • rhywun

        πŸ‘

  12. Evan from Evansville

    “America the Beautiful is not just a song.”

    In Korean, The United States is ‘mi-guk,’ λ―Έκ΅­, which means ‘Beautiful country.’

    Nailed it. ‘American exceptionalism’ is wholly correct on that front. Everything and everything for everyone.

    • Evan from Evansville

      “mi-guk” is pronounced like “ME-gook.’

    • Gustave Lytton

      Same in Mandarin: ηΎŽε›½ mΔ•iguΓ³

      • Evan from Evansville

        I can barely write my name legibly in English. Since childhood. (Being lefty doesn’t help.) No way in fuck I could write Mandarin/ many other Asian languages.

        Korean is… indeed a glorious invention of written language. A straight-up national creation, designed for simplicity. Better, easier, for The People to be literate.

      • Gustave Lytton

        Lefty also. And the stroke order sucks.

    • Evan from Evansville

      Yes, “me gook” is funny for a white guy to get used to saying there. But no one ever joked about it, honestly. Β―\_(ツ)_/Β―

      (We had far more shit to make fun of and get used to.)

    • The Hyperbole

      99 and some change, nice run, if not about 10 or 20 too long.

  13. Sean

    Mornin peeps.

    I hear snow plows outside. I might not even get to use the snow setting this morning. πŸ˜’

    β„β˜•.

    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=88ifybS97aA

    Unplugged music is good music . 🎢🎢

    • Gender Traitor

      Good morning, U, Ted’S., Sean, and hayek!

      I went out yesterday afternoon – leaving the house for the first time since Friday – to start up and clean the little bit of snow off my car, and now it has snow all over it again. πŸ˜’

      • UnCivilServant

        πŸš—πŸ’¨β„?

      • Gender Traitor

        Ummmm…..yes?

      • UnCivilServant

        Sorry, I was trying to indicate driving away and leaving the snow behind…

      • Gender Traitor

        Well, I am headed south this morning, but not far enough.

      • robodruid

        You are going to have to drive rather far south to leave the cold behind.
        Broke a hammer breaking ice yesterday for stock tanks….. How did i do that?

      • Gender Traitor

        Good morning, ‘bodru! All your critters still faring OK in this cold?

      • UnCivilServant

        I can only assume you used the wrong hammer.

      • robodruid

        Animals are ok but hungry. They ate a “3x3x3” bale of grass very quickly. So cold tractor wont start. Been giving them bales of grass from garage.
        Been taking warm water in buckets to refill/melt stock tanks.

  14. Ghostpatzer

    Mornin’, reprobates. Iggles and Clownboys got smoked over the weekend, nice hot cup of covfefe in hand, all is right with the world. Let it snow!

    • Gender Traitor

      Good morning, ‘patzie! I’m glad you’re glad, but please don’t say the “s” word right now. πŸ˜–

      • Ghostpatzer

        Oops. That ‘s’ thing is better from the inside looking out, I don’t need to deal with it. Safe travels.

    • Ownbestenemy

      Morning! Little in the way of being productive at the house this weekend. Worked on the kitchen half-wall/bar whatever. Moved some electrical. It was the garbage disposal and dishwasher switches. Moved them to outlets instead where the dishwasher was (we aren’t going to have one) and the other to under the sink. Might move that one again or abandon that circuit. We don’t have a disposal either.

      I am sure none of it is up to code. However, we did eat here with some family.

      • Gender Traitor

        Good morning, OBE!

        You’re not going to have a dishwasher or a garbage disposal?? 😳

      • Ghostpatzer

        Yum. That shrimp boil does look tasty.

      • Ownbestenemy

        Well with just two of us, we just hand wash. Wash as we cook, wash as soon as we are done eating. I guess during a party it might be a bit of a hassle, but that is what paper plates are for πŸ˜‰

        The no disposal is a bit weird but just requires adjusting some cleaning methods. Hasn’t been a hassle so far.

        I got the shrimp boil…it was very tasty. Nice atmosphere there too and close to NKY University so servers were…pretty to look at!

      • Tres Cool

        Thank G_d its not what I was expecting- that Papadeux’s joint in Fairfield.

        Do not recommend unless you want to pay too much for some mediocre food.

  15. Not Adahn

    Good morning!

  16. Not Adahn

    I have… thoughts responding to the open post, but I’ll hold it until 8:30.

    • Not Adahn

      Those might not exist in El Paso.

  17. Tres Cool

    suh’ fam
    whats goody